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This is an interesting dilema. I think it depends on whether the divorcee wanted the split or not. Some might be eager to get back in circulation again (who knows, maybe they'd been in circulation before signing the decree?). The jilted (so to speak) may need more time to come to grips with what happened, get over it, and be open to dating again. There are some who believe that dating right away will take the sting out of divorce. Some are so accustomed to being with someone that being alone is unbearable, so they date right away. I would think a friend would know the situation and the divorcees. If they were even a little sensitive, they'd know when the time to approach was right.
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I was divorced for a year when my best girlfriend admitted that she'd dated my ex three months after our split. My reaction was "After all I told you about him, you wanted to DATE him? Are you nuts?" Well, she and I had a laugh and we're still great friends of 30 years.